Why Some People Succeed And Others Don’t: The Truth
If you’ve ever felt like you’ve failed at anything, especially in business online, it’s critical that you understand why. Today Dean explains how it’s clear to him why some people succeed and others don’t. And it’s such an important message for anyone striving for more in life and in business…
“Y’know, there’s a reason that I think most people don’t succeed in business. And it’s not for lack of information. Not for lack of opportunity. It’s a lack of something else…
I’ve been doing a LOT of studying. Like, I am “all in” at the moment on self development, personal development, and mastering certain crafts and areas. I’ve really gone heavily in.
I’m always a student, and always will be a student of marketing. But sometimes, I ease off it. Not deliberately, but it just kind of happens. But at the moment, I am all in.
And I’m so having so much fun with it as well. Like, literally not even wanting to sit around at night doing anything other than reading and studying. Absolutely love it!
One of the things I’ve been studying a lot of at the moment is successful people. I’m not just talking about people in my industry, I’m talking about successful people, sports personalities, entrepreneurs, business owners, billionaires, millionaires. People at the height of their careers in all professions.
And something has become glaringly, glaringly obvious to me. Like ridiculously obvious.
It’s Become Clear To Me Why Some People Succeed And Others Don’t
Actually, y’know, if I look at myself, there’s been times… Even not-too-distant times – in the last few months even – that I can see where I have personally been slower to progress, because of this reason.
And I just wanted to mention that, because I think this is more important than anything. Y’know there is so much information, there is so much opportunity right now in the world… For people to live how they want to live, for people to have a particular type of lifestyle and security, and stability in their life.
But you have to wonder… Well, what is the defining difference? Why is it that a minority – a very, very small percentage – actually succeed and do it. Why?
Well, it’s not for lack of information… I mean, “What is the internet?” (The main place in which I operate my online business.) It is “information”. There is very little information that you cannot find for free somewhere, somehow.
And it’s not for lack of opportunity… There are, gosh, there are TOO many opportunities! There are too many ways to actually make money, and to build a business. And so, it’s not for that reason.
So, what is it then?
It’s for lack of belief… Y’know truthfully, most people that are trying to accomplish something don’t actually, fully, deep down, when you get to the core of it…
Most People Don’t 100% Believe That It’s Possible For Them
I’m telling you – it’s true! And although a lot of people will say, “I want to succeed, I hope to succeed.” Therein lies the problem… Hope.
When you’re hoping to do something, and you say it like that, “I hope so” – “I hope I make it” – “I hope I succeed” – “I hope this turns around.” What you’re really saying is, “I might, or I might not.” – “I’m hoping it happens, but it may not.” That’s what you’re saying deep down, right? That’s what’s in your head.
And you may not be coming out forthright and saying, “I don’t fully believe I can do this.” But really, by pulling out certain words of what somebody’s saying, you can tell that they don’t fully believe it.
That’s the majority. That’s most people. Most people just do not believe in their ability to do it.
And So, What Can You Do?
Well, you have to develop your belief – you have to develop your confidence.
You have to understand that… I know you’ve taken knock-backs, I know you’ve had failures, I have too. It happens all the time. I have more failures than successes. That’s why we have to keep going until we get those successes in our businesses, and lives…
But you have to believe…
I am going to do this. And no matter what it takes, no matter how many times I fall before I get there, no matter how many times I fail before it happens… I will be doing this.
I’ve had wavering belief at times, believe me! Because I’ve done a lot of things that are massive risks, and I take risks. I’m not afraid to to take risks. I’m not afraid to go all-in.
There’s been times where I’ve had that wavering belief. And I’ve recognised that when my belief isn’t at maximum, when I have doubts – I don’t succeed. I stay stuck.
But when I shift, and I go “all in”, and I have that belief, that mentality of, “It’s already happened – it’s already happening… We’ve just got to do it – we’ve just got to get there… But it’s already happened!” That’s how much I believe…. Like,
We Are The Very Best In This Industry
We provide the absolute best solutions. And we are going to be number one, here at Internet Profits. That’s the way we believe, that’s the way we think, and that’s what we KNOW in our hearts.
You have to know in your heart that you are going to achieve what you set out to achieve. Because if you don’t, I assure you… If you don’t have the belief, you’re never gonna do it. Trust me, you will not do it.
So anyway, I’m at Internet Profits HQ. Thank you for joining me here on today’s Drive. Have a great rest of your day. I will of course be back with another episode of The Drive – “Problems Of Affiliate Marketing For Beginners: Risks And Challenges“. With that said, thanks again, have a great day. This is Dean Holland on The Drive, signing out.”
Hope that’s given you some food for thought about why some people succeed and others don’t. Are you as “all in” as you could be in your online business? Do you need to look deeper within? Can you ask yourself truthfully if you’re just hoping for the best, or have absolute belief in your trajectory and business strategy and plan?
2 thoughts on “Why Some People Succeed And Others Don’t: The Truth”
Nailed it! Belief is so important.
Thanks for stopping by my blog. I will be looking around here some more.
Yup. Thanks for the comment Mimi.